Sex is like food; the right amount of spice makes all the difference!
And while we can’t spice up your food, we can definitely help you spice up your sex life. So here are some things to treat yourself or your partner with.
Set the Vibe
Setting the mood to relax the body and mind and get into the right headspace to get it on can sometimes be overlooked but in our opinion it’s basically foreplay for the foreplay.
Moodsetters can be as simple as selecting a sexy time playlist and lighting a candle, or as elaborate and getting the lighting just right, changing your regular old cotton bedsheets to a silky alternative and making sure there are no pesky distractions like your phone ringing just as things are starting to heat up.
Whatever you do, don’t skimp out on at least one of these mood setters to set the tone for the rest of the night.
A Helping Hand?
Whether you’re with a partner or getting down on your own, there’s nothing wrong with introducing something new to the mix. Massagers can significantly increase the pleasure of the experience in any situation, for all parties involved. We suggest a swift journey from the ‘getting to know you phase’ to the ‘DTF phase’ when it comes to incorporating these toys into your play time. There’s a massager for everyone- a multitasking sleek option for beginners or something for your specific cunnilingus needs. The choices are MyMuse Massagers
Bedding That Not Only Compliments the Night’s Activities, But Contributes To It
Speaking of silky sheets and switching up the bedding to contribute to the night’s activities, did you know that there are specific pillows that could up your pleasure while providing all the support you need? If you don’t believe us, see it for yourself here.
Books to Open the Mind… and Body
There’s a reason why “ChickLit”, aka romance novels, aka erotica, is the most profitable genre of books out there. They give the reader everything they could possibly desire and more! The jaw dropping romance, the ideal partner, the “oh-my-god-what’s-happening-in-my-pants” excitement; it’s everything you could possibly need to get yourself in the mood. Whether you’re satisfying yourself at the end of it, or playing out the scenario word for word with a surprised but willing partner, erotica has got you covered… in more ways than one.
And if you’re not into the typical tropes of outdated romance novels, switch it up with some fantasy series that give you a gripping plotline and some mind blowing scenes sprinkled in.
Sexy Game Night Anyone?
While pleasure is something that we should all be taking seriously, there’s no need to miss out on the fun of “playtime”. Go from flirty moments across the table to intimate moments under the sheets with a game designed to increase the excitement and the intimacy.
Everyone needs to try Feminist Erotica
Ever thought to yourself how unappealing mainstream porn really is? Ever second guessed your sexuality when watching toxic, sexist, male-centric porn just wasn’t doing it for you? It might be time to broaden your horizons and explore the world of ethical porn, made keeping the wants and needs of a woman in mind. Here are a few suggestions that may come ‘handy’ (pun intended).
Monotony and boredom creep up on all of us at some point in our lives, but there’s no reason why we must embrace it. So go on, shake things up!
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